Human nature has many components but it’s safe to say
that the drive to reproduce is easily the strongest. That, of course, only makes sense. Without it, the human species would not have
survived after the creation of Adam and Eve.
Yet like every trait, it has its negative as well as
positive aspects. Ancient civilizations –
to modern have struggled to control its excesses and confine its exercise to
positive ends defined usually as serving the needs of children with in a family
structure… monogamous in the Western world.
But, historically, civilizing sexual relations has hardly
met with unmitigated success. Still,
broad swaths of mankind have followed the restraints imposed by their
particular societies; those resisting generally were ostracized (at least
publicly).
So now it’s 2017 in America and it seems as though the
dam of restraints on sexual misconduct has collapsed as the River of
Improprieties carrying Harvey Weinstein, Al Franken, Roy Moore, etc. cascades
down a ravine.
What happened? Has
such conduct (ranging from verbal harassment to serious non-consensual sexual
contact) simply been present to the same extent as it always has but now is receiving
more publicity? Certainly the prominent
allegations concern not recent activities, but go back a decade or more.
Nonetheless, it’s worth noting – perhaps persuasively so –
that the weakened civilizing aspects of our society pertaining to sexual mores
may bear some, if not the bulk of, responsibility.
Let me be blunt – it is the male – far more than the
female – who is inclined to take advantage of the opposite sex. Thus, it is the male who has felt the
societal restraints most keenly.
Without doubt, restraints have loosened in recent
decades.
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Extra marital sex has exploded.
*** Marriage rates, formally
the only acceptable setting for sexual relations, have declined dramatically as
often temporary co-habitation arrangements are on the increase.
*** Birth control pills have
removed concerns over unwanted pregnancies, making many more willing
participants in what used to be termed illicit sex.
*** The popular view that
women are on the same sexual plane is now making females more vulnerable to men
who, by nature, are more aggressive.
And we wonder that men – some, at least – are out of
control?
Does the phrase “unintended consequences” come to mind?